Your Ex Tested as “Secure.” But They Weren’t. What Happened?
How could someone test as secure and still act so avoidant?
“But they tested as secure. I had them take the attachment style quiz early on. I thought I was finally choosing someone healthy.”
And yet that same partner is now hesitant with affection.
Why Do You Attract Emotionally Unavailable Partners?
Discover why you attract emotionally unavailable partners. It’s not manifestation—it’s karmic family patterns, nervous system imprints, and hidden wounds.
Avoidant Attachment’s Hidden Narcissism Share
The dark side of Avoidant Attachment is their partner who tries to learn the communication methods and do the inner growth work to get the love of their avoidant partner, yet it does nothing.
Why Spiritually Awake People Still Struggle in Love
The woman who sacrifices everything for love doesn’t actually believe she’s saintly. Beneath her polished generosity lives the terror: “If I ever ask for too much, I’ll be abandoned.”…
Anxious Attachment’s Hidden Narcissism
When people first discover attachment theory, it’s tempting to see the avoidant partner as “the selfish one.” After all, they’re the one who shuts down, pulls away, refuses to compromise, or goes cold when closeness is most needed. From the outside, that can look like classic narcissism—no empathy, no warmth, only self-protection.