Your Ex Tested as “Secure.” But They Weren’t. What Happened?
How could someone test as secure and still act so avoidant?
“But they tested as secure. I had them take the attachment style quiz early on. I thought I was finally choosing someone healthy.”
And yet that same partner is now hesitant with affection.
Avoidant Attachment’s Hidden Narcissism Share
The dark side of Avoidant Attachment is their partner who tries to learn the communication methods and do the inner growth work to get the love of their avoidant partner, yet it does nothing.